Ever fallen in love with someone you couldn't be with??? :/
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Ever liked someone so much....
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Billie J.
LOS ANGELES,
United States
4589 posts
OG since: 03/16/2009
Sort of. I didn't fall in love with them though.
posted Jun 10, 2011
Danie G.
1932,
United States
447 posts
Member since: 09/06/2010
Yeah, my friend Jason. He's going to a different college and we just now realized that we would've liked to date. Ha, I don't think we'd ever really date though.. I feel like he is out of my league, and he is pretty fickle.
posted Jul 23, 2011
Ellah D.
HOGWARTS,
Philippines
62 posts
Member since: 09/14/2010
Yes and its killing me everyday. </3
posted Jul 23, 2011
Carmen B.
LUXEMBOURG BUT LIVING IN BONN, GERMANY,
Luxembourg
132 posts
Member since: 12/23/2010
I have been in love with a boy from my class for about 3 years and at some point I thought he loved me, too but when I finally told him I loved him he said that he had no feelings for me. It was hard but he wasn't laughing at me or so but really friendly and respectful. And guess what, now he's my best friend and we can tell each other everything and I prefer it how it is now :)
posted Jul 23, 2011
Francisca P.
Portugal
154 posts
OG since: 07/15/2010
Yes, it sucks.
posted Jul 24, 2011
Christopher L.
GT,
Guatemala
1624 posts
OG since: 09/19/2009
Idk If I fell in love but I definitely had a bad crush.
It wears off with time.
posted Jul 24, 2011
Eilidh X.
GLASGOW,
United Kingdom
310 posts
OG since: 03/21/2009
Yes. Difference is i was a bitch and went for it. He was my friend's ex and three months later he showed he was interested. Everyone told me not to do anything, ofcorse, and I tried not to but genuinely couldn't keep my self away. The guilt killed me and we're no where as close as we once were.. on the other hand I've been head over heels and a year and don't regret it.
Sometimes you just have to question whats worth it..
posted Jul 24, 2011
Christina S.
MUNICH,
Germany
34 posts
OG since: 07/13/2009
yes,
I fell in love with that special boy 3 years ago and knowing that we probably will never be a couple hurts more and more every single day.
I can't explain why but I guess I'll never be able to give up on him, eventhough I know I miss a lot of other chances because of that..
posted Jul 24, 2011
Katie C.
NEW YORK,
United States
102 posts
OG since: 08/15/2010
Yes, and it's very painful.
posted Jul 24, 2011
Kimberlee D.
CALIFORNIA,
United States
46 posts
Member since: 01/02/2011
Yea my friend Stephen who told all his friends he liked me but chose to go back out with his ex instead. I liked him so much but I feel like all he wants is a one night hookup and it kills me everyday but I've learned to accept it
posted Jul 25, 2011
Aurora ..
ONTARIO,
Canada
3763 posts
OG since: 07/21/2009
oh lets embarass myself a bit here....
when I see guys that I think could be interesting I like to make up personas for what I think they'd be like in real life and I call them my boyfriends. I currently have 4 made up boyfriends. I love them all very much, or as much as you can considering they aren't real.
posted Jul 25, 2011
Raymond B.
Belgium
339 posts
OG since: 04/22/2010
Well I'm gay and I fell in love with a straight friend of mine, I had to get over it. It quite painful.
posted Jul 25, 2011
Dallas M.
SOUTHERN SPAIN,
Spain
46 posts
Member since: 05/29/2011
I'm in that situation at the moment.
He is this super cute and intelligent guy. We have so much fun together. He has this great sense of humour and he is really charming. The thing is that I'm 16 and he is 35... So like... Yep! It could be illegal and all that... Some friends are forcing me to like... Go for it! Although I'm kinda scared. I don't really know what to do. It really sucks a lot. I'll explain one situation, for exemple, when we are with more people around our eye contact is so intense that could burn the whole place. Did I mention that we have many things in common and that he looks irresistible with his elegant suit on?
posted Jul 25, 2011
Samantha M.
VANCOUVER,
Canada
275 posts
Member since: 09/08/2010
Yeah.
posted Jul 26, 2011
Brandon H.
SOMEWHERE IN THE UNIVERSE,
United States
50 posts
Member since: 07/14/2011
yeah... my best friend!! i was in the friend zone. but like if your gonna be with someone don't you want them to be your best friend? your other half?
posted Jul 26, 2011
Valeria G.
MILANO,
Italy
246 posts
Member since: 02/07/2011
Always. I hate it.
posted Jul 27, 2011
Lauren M.
United Kingdom
55 posts
Member since: 10/02/2010
yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeep
but... its all worked out :)
posted Jul 28, 2011
John Fucking W.
BUTTFUCK NOWHERE,
United States
55 posts
Member since: 07/19/2011
Never, because I dont believe in that love bullshit, BUT
I have had feelings for men that when I was considering pursuing them, I realized it would never work longterm (5 yrs or longer), but even through all the logic, still feel attracted to them and yet dont want to start something I know will just fail.
It sucks.
posted Jul 30, 2011
Alaroy C.
United States
418 posts
Member since: 01/21/2011
There's always better people out there, maybe even hotter ; )
posted Jul 30, 2011
Matthew B.
United Kingdom
47 posts
OG since: 04/12/2009
Sky is the limit. Im dating a persom 12 years oder than me amd all is going well. You just need to be realistic
posted Jul 30, 2011
Dani A.
LOS ANGELES,
United States
309 posts
OG since: 03/10/2010
My first and only "true love" so far was a married guy. He was an extra-curricular teacher of mine in some respects also. We actually fell for each other and kind of dated on the down-low but obviously couldn't technically "be together." He was honest with his wife about us but she still wasn't having it (I don't blame her) so they moved back to their hometown a few months after things started getting serious. Last time I heard from him, they were considering a divorce.
posted Jul 31, 2011
Morgan M.
PLATFORM 9 3/4,
United States
101 posts
Member since: 04/22/2011
Not really in love, but definitely had a huge crush on a friend. And I still do. Thing is, a few days after we started to get to know eachother he started dating a girl because she was interested in him and he's very "yeah, let's go for it!" and they started dating. That's been almost four months and we've gotten really close. So by the time they break up I'm afraid we'll be too good of friends to even go for it.
posted Jul 31, 2011
Selina M.
LONDON,
United Kingdom
779 posts
OG since: 11/11/2009
well i did have a crush on someone else who was seeing one of my friends but i never go there. it wouldn't have worked anyway
posted Jul 31, 2011
Sophie.M G.
UP NORTH,
United Kingdom
11 posts
Member since: 07/03/2011
It really really fucking hurts :(
posted Aug 2, 2011
Charles Olivier W.
QUEBEC,
Canada
660 posts
OG since: 07/06/2010
Yes, kind of, and it sucks a lot.
posted Aug 2, 2011
Helen D.
SMALL TOWN NEAR RIVER,
Russian Federation
702 posts
Member since: 07/21/2011
sympathy mayb's possible
but luv-never
posted Aug 5, 2011
Samantha T.
SINGAPORE,
Singapore
536 posts
Member since: 08/28/2010
yep, and then we drifted apart :(
posted Aug 5, 2011
Dario G.
Germany
75 posts
Member since: 02/08/2011
ofc, and it sucks
posted Aug 6, 2011
Milena B.
SAN FELIPE, CHILE,
Chile
39 posts
Member since: 09/25/2011
I fell in love with my best friend, then I discovered me he was "gay", my life went to hell, but know he isn't gay anymore... Now he's in love with other girl who will never love him.KARMA
posted Nov 18, 2011
Zahraisabelle L.
XANADU,
Sweden
4766 posts
OG since: 08/28/2009
Oh just every fucking time. q:
posted Nov 18, 2011
Gabii M.
South Africa
10 posts
Member since: 07/14/2011
well i REALLY liked him...he's gay. everytime.
posted Nov 18, 2011
Elise :.
SYDNEY,
Australia
932 posts
Member since: 03/20/2011
so many times. Damn you hot straight girls.
posted Nov 21, 2011
Mademoiselle N.
THE LAND OF MOZART,
Austria
168 posts
OG since: 12/22/2009
yes, i think he doesnt even know my name
posted Dec 30, 2011
Becky B.
2005,
United Kingdom
593 posts
Member since: 08/28/2010
I wouldn't say I loved someone but when I was 18, I developed a very intense emotional relationship with someone.
I already had a boyfriend and he lived a good many miles away so we could only see each other once a month or so. It just couldn't work. When my boyfriend and I split, I did ask him whether he would consider it but he said the distance would be too difficult and he was worried about coming second best to my ex.
I don't really speak to him anymore which is a shame. He was a really nice guy and now, according to Facebook, he's getting a mortgage with his girlfriend. I'm really pleased for him. He deserves to be happy.
posted Dec 30, 2011
Grace I.
BANGKOK,
Thailand
9 posts
Member since: 04/21/2011
Yep we love each other but I don't think we can be together :( sadd
posted Dec 31, 2011
MaryAlice M.
WONDERLAND,
United States
811 posts
Member since: 09/14/2011
I'm currently in that situation. He is my first love. We are forbidden to be together because he there is an 11 year gap in age. Neither of us knew, when we met, the age of the other. So I sit aside as I watch him move on, and I stay behind.
posted Dec 31, 2011
Chelsea M.
NORTH CAROLINA,
United States
151 posts
OG since: 05/25/2009
it wasn't forbidden, but something was just off. We shared so many of the same opinions and views of the world. it was so refreshing because i really have never had a connection like that to a person before or after this. it really seemed like we were in perfect harmony. We were together non stop for a few weeks and then something in my gut was just unsettling and as much as it hurt me i felt like i had to break things off-- so i did.
"Paul" ended up moving across the country and i had absolutely no contact from him for nearly 2 years. During that time i had moved in and then broke up with my (current) boyfriend and he moved out. The day after he moved out i randomly received a belated birthday text message from Paul saying he was moving back and wanted to see me. it really seemed like a sign that i was supposed to be with him. When we met again it was perfect harmony allover again for a few months! But then as i began to settle into the relationship more i began to realize that we just were never going to meet at the same place in our lives. i'm always too far ahead (better job, motivation, responsibilities etc).
But it all worked out for the best because now i'm back with the man of my dreams and happy as ever.... but i'll always remember my summer of 2008 and 2010
posted Dec 31, 2011
Tayi Ashley T.
WELLINGTON NEW ZEALAND,
New Zealand
77 posts
Member since: 10/15/2011
I so go through that too! Older guys.. and Im 16 too, although that the legal age in my country.. but still, it weirds people out and " Socially, morally etc..its " FORBIDDEN" but its hard to help.. especially when you meet someone an theres a real connection, and things esculate. I think sometimes its love.. Im not sure.. but still theres the age factor! I hate being a teen, its so oppressive. :(
This doesnt make sense.. but neither does the situation! Sorry! But yeah.. Yes Ive fallen in love with someone I couldnt be with.. I think.
posted Dec 31, 2011
Laura P.
BRAZIL,
United States
68 posts
Member since: 12/11/2011
When I was 14 I traveled to Disney and had a big crush on my tour guide. I got into a relationship but I got his e-mail and always was randomly talking to him about music and stuff. When I broke up, almost 2 years later, I started to email him everyday and I saw him twice during Carnival. I fell for him and he wanted to be with me too but he has 34. He said that he likes me a lot but he doesn't want to get in trouble. :(
posted Dec 31, 2011
Jana T.
Philippines
458 posts
Member since: 03/06/2011
nope! :D
posted Jan 1, 2012
Katie L.
INDIANAPOLIS,
United States
345 posts
OG since: 08/30/2009
I've never fallen in love before. I'm only 18, it's hard to think that I've already gone and found that one person.
But, yes, I have had an intense liking for someone I couldn't have.
posted Jan 1, 2012
Alex C.
United States
50 posts
OG since: 05/17/2010
Yes, currently. I don't know if we can or can't be with each other, anymore, cause neither of us put any effort into each other. We never really did except for a week and we are so awkward in person--so awkward, we don't speak--so basically, it's that neither of us put effort and that's why we just can't :S
posted Jan 2, 2012
N T.
Indonesia
39 posts
Member since: 01/06/2011
Yep, and this shit is sucks. We don't have any relationship status but we were really close for last 7 month. Now he's change and I dunno why. And the best thing I can do is just pretending I'm happy.
posted Feb 5, 2012
Lucy K.
Australia
97 posts
Member since: 02/26/2011
YES.
this boy was chasing me for SIX MONTHS. He was taken by me the first time he ever met and chased me for six months. I told him I wasn't sure if I was ready for a relationship. He hang out though and talked a lot. Then at the end of last year I finally told him that I wanted to be with him. He then told me no because he doesnt trust me, he said his heart says yes and his head says no. and that he doubts me!! i am so angry and annoyed cause why chase me for six months and then change your mind. it doesnt make sense.
posted Feb 5, 2012
Ansley M.
SAN DIEGO,
United States
22 posts
Member since: 01/22/2012
Not me but my best friend has generals as parents and is banned from being with the love if her life ..it breaks my heart to watch her suffer ..its the worst kind of torture because she deserves to be happy more than anyone I know
posted Feb 5, 2012
Melissa S.
CUPERTINO,
United States
17 posts
Member since: 02/07/2011
yep. sad story here. we recently just broke up. the first time we met, we were instantly liked each other. but then we saw how different we are - different interests, different lives, different groups of friends, etc. the only thing holding us together were our attraction to each other. i guess it was just lust afterall
posted Feb 6, 2012
Zahira O.
JAKARTA,
Indonesia
420 posts
OG since: 01/30/2010
my first love! i was in love for about two years. he went to the same school and he was 2 years above me. he liked someone else, he said. but maybe he didn't like me because i'm a freak >< his friends knew i liked him and sooo i had an awful 7th grade experience. he was a nice person though. wish he had the same feelings but oh well.
posted Feb 6, 2012
Tok V.
Germany
413 posts
Member since: 12/03/2011
Oh yeah. My first love was four years older than me, and at 14, that's quite a lot :D I stayed in love with him for three years. Eventually, we became very close friends, and that hurt a lot. I managed to leave all this behind after three years... but it was hard.
posted Feb 6, 2012
Reiel L.
JAPAN BUT LIVING IN MANILA,
Philippines
302 posts
Member since: 12/13/2011
trying not to.
if i'm liking someone and i know that the person wont like me back
i wont push through so that i have no reason to be inlove.
well, love always starts by liking someone then it'll develop
posted Feb 19, 2012
Vynka A.
MY MIND,
Australia
112 posts
Member since: 04/16/2011
harry styles..
posted Feb 19, 2012
Jen L.
TORONTO,
Canada
164 posts
Member since: 12/21/2010
On my month long trip to Italy, I fell in love with a photographer. Realistically, I live several thousands of miles away so it was never meant to happen. To this day I still treasure those moments we had together..
posted Feb 20, 2012
Mara C.
LAS LOUIS AND ST. VEGAS,
United States
4847 posts
OG since: 12/27/2009
Eeeyup. Gay friend. Herpderp.
posted Feb 20, 2012
Jazz N.
NEW YORK,
United States
2668 posts
OG since: 05/30/2009
Wouldn't say I'm in love, but there is a guy who I really, really like and I know he feels the same way about me. From the first day I met him, we just vibed well. Unfortunately, he's taken and pursuing him would be a huge slap in the face to his girlfriend, who happens to be a friend of mine. It would also be a problem with our circle of friends. I wish we met under different circumstances.
posted Feb 20, 2012
Roselinni C.
GREENFIELDS,
Philippines
185 posts
Member since: 11/13/2011
Quite. It's mostly because of his voice though. But he has fallen for my best friend; and it truly sucks.
posted Feb 20, 2012
Joss P.
SOUTH AFRICA,
South Africa
122 posts
Member since: 02/10/2012
I technically wasn't meant to be with my boyfriend because I met him and fell for him while dating my abusive ex. It was killing me inside because I wanted to be with him but was scared of my ex. I finally gathered the courage one day and broke things off. It wasn't easy, but me and my boyfriend eventually managed to get together and it's been two and a half years now.
posted Feb 21, 2012
Y.D. P.
SINGAPORE,
Singapore
40 posts
Member since: 01/10/2012
yup. my first love! and I'm still in love with him 'till now s impossible to be with him :(
posted Feb 22, 2012
Noah ..
A PLACE WHERE I LONG TO FORGET,
Saint Vincent and the Grenadines
108 posts
Member since: 12/30/2011
We're soul mates!
posted Apr 7, 2012
Celina V.
CARSON,
United States
615 posts
OG since: 01/14/2010
Shia la beouf :[
posted Apr 7, 2012
Christina A.
TEXAS,
United States
613 posts
OG since: 06/06/2010
looking back on it I wouldn't consider it love, but I thought I was so in love and absolutely meant to be with this one guy that I dated for three years. things were so messed up and he moved away and we tried to stay together but we kept breaking up and getting back together when we shouldn't have and he just didn't want to be with me anymore.
posted Apr 8, 2012
Gillian R.
HERE, THERE AND EVERYWHERE...CALIFORNIA,
United States
106 posts
Member since: 11/24/2010
story of my life..not that i really know what love in this particular sense really is...but whats worse is when i like him he likes me we don't take the moment and it turns to dust and he moves on:/
posted Apr 8, 2012
Joem M.
DAVAO CITY,
Philippines
11 posts
Member since: 09/26/2011
I think this isn't love yet coz I just saw him here on Lookbook. Hahaha. Anyway, I fell in love with his style. But this guy is stylish but noticed that he really doesn't smile that much. I follow him on Twitter and Instagram. Hoping to see a picture of him finally smiling. But no, hopeless. :))
posted Apr 8, 2012
Monica D.
Bulgaria
241 posts
Member since: 01/25/2012
Nope. (I had crushes on guys that weren't single, but that doesn't count.)
posted Apr 8, 2012
Vanessa E.
KUALA LUMPUR,
Malaysia
68 posts
Member since: 03/10/2011
Yes, I've had some crushes. But the right guy found me so yeah. :) Currently having a HUGE fangirl crush on some guy on lookbook though :P
posted Apr 9, 2012
Cassandra D.
MANILA,
Philippines
66 posts
Member since: 12/19/2011
I've had the biggest crush on an upperclassman who just graduated. Smart, funny, b-e-a-utiful, and we're actually really good friends. And I get *vibes* ...but it might all be in my head.
posted Apr 11, 2012
Mark D.
MANILA,
Philippines
56 posts
Member since: 09/27/2011
yeah, but we couldn't be together,
COULDN'T, SHOULDN'T, MUSTN'T.... the sad reality, you do not get all the things you want in life, what if you don't just want it? you NEED it. So hard, and its killing me.
'twas painful, very painful, yet you can't do anything. (sigh) thanks for reading.
iammarkdizon.blogspot.com/
posted Apr 11, 2012
Helene S.
Norway
38 posts
Member since: 05/24/2011
Yeah, unfortunately.... We were friends, but I honestly don't know what happened. I never see him anymore and we barely even talk. I feel like I'm stuck in the same place, and I can't get over him. Everything he says and stands for are just.....I feel like I'll never find anyone as great as him.
But what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, right?
Thank you everyone for your comments! It really helped me reading through them, and writing my own little story :-) You are all wonderful! Don't give up <3
posted Apr 11, 2012
Mia R.
A HOLE IN THE WALL,
United States
28 posts
Member since: 02/21/2012
not quite fallen in love but i do have very strong feelings for him. we work together and we used to hang out but i started to feel really guilty about it because he has a girlfriend. so i told him i couldn't be his friend anymore this past monday, it was so hard. but the whole thing is just fucked up and depressing!
posted Apr 12, 2012
Caroline E.
NORTH YORKSHIRE,
United Kingdom
22 posts
Member since: 02/22/2012
... I think this everytime I see Jason Statham in a film... :(
posted Apr 12, 2012
Amanda S.
Brazil
88 posts
OG since: 04/04/2010
I liked a friend of mine. He didn't like me the same way, so we were kind of weird some time and then it just disappeared. We're friends again now, as if it was before, but during the time I still liked him it was a complete shitty situation.
posted Apr 17, 2012
Santa F.
LATVIA,
Latvia
24 posts
Member since: 03/04/2012
the feeling sucks when someone doesn't like you back. good that he lives far away and i don't see him that often.
posted Apr 17, 2012
Bernadette P.
SAN JOSE, CA,
United States
76 posts
OG since: 05/24/2010
yea, its such a predicament... :[
posted Apr 18, 2012
Raya B.
WALES,
United Kingdom
77 posts
OG since: 06/01/2009
i think i love someone who used to love me ages ago.
posted Apr 18, 2012
Kiersten L.
NEW YORK,
United States
12 posts
Member since: 04/11/2012
I was in love with someone for 2 years...
He led me on the whole time.
Then ended up getting back with his ex who he still loved the whole time.
:(
posted Apr 19, 2012
Kirstine Eibye E.
HADSTEN, AARHUS,
Denmark
205 posts
Member since: 04/15/2011
I did, a long time ago. I guess I never stopped loving him and now he's dead. I guess that love's really on my side, huh?
posted Apr 19, 2012