Biggest turn off in the opposite sex?
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Davis W.
THE SOUTH,
United States
34 posts
OG since: 05/05/2010
Snobs. I can't stand a snobby ass girl. I love humble women. You could have terrible taste in everything, be humble, and I'd be more attracted in you than some elitist pretentious bitch.
posted Jul 13, 2010
Ell P.
DEEP IN THE CORE,
United Kingdom
429 posts
OG since: 02/10/2010
appearance: spots, i know their natural, but they freak me out
personality: having no manners
posted Jul 13, 2010
Duane A.
LEEDS,
United Kingdom
39 posts
OG since: 04/20/2010
Appearance - fake WAG look.
Personality - no ambition or confidence.
posted Jul 13, 2010
Kira S.
CALIFORNIA,
United States
11 posts
OG since: 07/10/2010
Yellow teeth. And, if they smell.
posted Jul 13, 2010
Nesha W.
ENGLAND,
United Kingdom
80 posts
OG since: 06/26/2010
appearance- really really bad acne
non appearance- obnoxious (i don't have time for guys who love themselves)
posted Jul 17, 2010
Emma P.
TEXAS,
United States
108 posts
OG since: 07/13/2010
shorter than me or like being really emotional and complaining
and unibrows.....
posted Jul 18, 2010
ANJU L.
Canada
25 posts
OG since: 07/16/2010
bad skin
cocky.
posted Jul 19, 2010
Salt E.
HERE,
United States
168 posts
OG since: 01/05/2009
Appearance.. I would say I don't like that generally I don't like extremely muscular folks, nor do I like gel-slicked back hair, genereally! I'm sure there are some boys out there that could pull it off..
Personality wise I don't like boys who are full of themselves or small minded.
posted Jul 19, 2010
Kristina M.
1/2 NORWEGIAN 1/2 MEXICAN, LIVING IN BUENOS AIRES,
Argentina
4 posts
OG since: 02/04/2010
unibrows, ugly noses (tucan noses for example), greasy hair or nasty hairstyles or hair thats too long, smelly
personality: cocky people, people that are down to earth are so much more comfortable to be with, overly overly nice so that its fake
posted Jul 24, 2010
Irene R.
CALGARY,
Canada
92 posts
OG since: 07/18/2010
greasy hair
dirty nails
posted Jul 24, 2010
Emma D.
BOHEMIA,
Australia
224 posts
Member since: 09/06/2010
Poor Personal Hygiene.
posted Oct 3, 2010
Mooo N.
THE LAND OF TEACUPS,
United Kingdom
467 posts
OG since: 04/05/2010
arrogance
posted Oct 3, 2010
Calista C.
LONDON,
United Kingdom
72 posts
OG since: 07/18/2010
appearance wise: actually everything that's not well groomed.
And beards or very hairy men. And actually I don't like overweight guys too - i think curves suit women better ;)
non-appearance wise: -I hate, hate, HATE dumb guys! Intelligence and character is key!
-someone you can't have a proper conversation with and not-polite men
posted Oct 6, 2010
Laura K.
WONDERLAND,
Netherlands
29 posts
Member since: 09/10/2010
Appearance wise: I agree with Calista C.--> everything that's not well groomed
Non-appearance wise: A guy who makes me feel uneasy (aka I won't be able to open up to someone like that)
posted Oct 7, 2010
Tenielle M.
LA HARDDRIVE,
Canada
13 posts
Member since: 09/04/2010
Appearance: teeth. unbrushed, bad breath, yellow, ect.
cleanliness is key :P
Non Appearance: Vanity and no moral high ground
posted Oct 9, 2010
Tanya M.
VICTORIA,
Canada
167 posts
OG since: 08/17/2010
Turn Off.. Hmm, Poor Grooming!
posted Oct 9, 2010
Christy W.
VANCOUVER, RESIDING IN HONG KONG,
Canada
49 posts
Member since: 10/22/2010
overly confidence + pimple face
posted Nov 14, 2010
Olivia H.
ENGLAND,
United Kingdom
195 posts
OG since: 05/27/2009
An obsession with Call of Duty. Urgh
posted Nov 14, 2010
Randi N.
STUPID NEW YORK,
United States
2403 posts
OG since: 04/24/2010
appearance wise, guys who just don't bother to properly groom themselves if the very top; a decent hair style/nice clean hair, nice fitting clothes, healthy body (damnit you don't need to be "ripped" just look healthy), clean skin. just look like you care a little bit, have some class is all i'm asking O_o
i'm not a fan of facial hair either, ah.
posted Nov 14, 2010
Elza B.
RIGA,
Latvia
190 posts
OG since: 01/02/2010
lack of personal hygene. unatracctive style . too short or too long hair . bad skin
posted Nov 15, 2010
Hugo E.
THE OTHER SIDE,
United States
4 posts
Member since: 10/21/2010
bad odor
posted Nov 15, 2010
Samantha M.
VANCOUVER,
Canada
275 posts
Member since: 09/08/2010
Appearance: Short, webbed or assymetrical toes, bad teeth.
Non appearance: Angry all the time, cocky, rude, and smells horrid!
posted Nov 16, 2010
Sara B.
WASHINGTON, DC,
United States
823 posts
OG since: 11/23/2009
attempt at looking cool/main goal in life is to be the ultimate cool guy
posted Nov 16, 2010
Danie G.
1932,
United States
447 posts
Member since: 09/06/2010
Appearence: greasy hair, body odor, shorter than me.
Personality: loud, obnoxious, ill-mannered, bad sense of humor.
posted Nov 16, 2010
Maneka J.
COLOMBO,
Sri Lanka
8 posts
Member since: 10/13/2010
Bad skin.
posted Dec 10, 2010
Erin M.
MONTREAL,
Canada
187 posts
OG since: 08/18/2008
Being a know-it-all
posted Dec 10, 2010
Mariya C.
TORONTO ,
Canada
42 posts
OG since: 07/23/2010
Long nails,shorter than me,overweight. & When they can't keep a conversation going.
posted Dec 10, 2010
Nicole S.
Canada
167 posts
OG since: 03/31/2009
People are quite judgmental. Not an insult, just an observation!
Arrogance and lack of intelligence are turn-offs for me.
posted Dec 10, 2010
Hanaa M.
SCOTLAND,
United Kingdom
135 posts
OG since: 08/09/2010
People who wear tracksuits and shit when not exersizing.
Neds.
people that talk about sex all the time.
smelly people.
over compliments me.
people who don't like the beatles
people who don't read enough.
people who are not very smart.
people who type like an idoit.
cool dudes.
smelly people.
people with nearly monobrows or just monobrows.
people who arnt creative.
people who talk in slag.
those who think with their dick.
and many many more!
posted Dec 10, 2010
Ashley J.
ESTADOS UNIDOS,
United States
21 posts
Member since: 08/27/2010
when it comes to the opposite sex, i can't stand the arrogant and weak-minded
posted Dec 11, 2010
Alice B.
NEVERLAND,
United Kingdom
52 posts
OG since: 07/24/2010
appearance wise i cant stand speedos and for otherwise i dont like drinkers
posted Dec 11, 2010
Michelle F.
UTAH. ,
United States
317 posts
OG since: 08/01/2010
Who wears Ed Hardy or just casual shirts, I personally don't like that. I also don't like it when I can't have a intelligent conversation with them.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Kristy J.
ONE END OF TOWN TO THE OTHER,
Canada
1043 posts
Member since: 09/03/2010
Probably attitude.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Juliette M.
THE SHED,
United Kingdom
209 posts
OG since: 03/14/2010
Long nails, and a lack of personal hygiene, the arrogant, the self important, and the ones who can never form an opinion or agree with everything you say.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Linda L.
GOTHENBURG,
Sweden
114 posts
OG since: 04/10/2009
Shorter than me.
Rude people.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Sandie S.
FAR, FAR AWAY,
United States
7 posts
OG since: 06/17/2009
Appearance: shorter than me, pudgy
Personality: lack of confidence
posted Dec 11, 2010
Isabel S.
NEWCASTLE,
United Kingdom
354 posts
OG since: 08/19/2009
patronising people, sadly I dont find many that aren't becasue I only go for people older than me. And I have never came across someone who doesnt think they are better than me because of age. frustration.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Sophie R.
LONDON,
United Kingdom
4384 posts
OG since: 01/21/2010
Arrogance.
Smokers.
People who don't talk properly.
A "lad" who spends too much time drinking beer and singing football chants.
posted Dec 11, 2010
Elaine L.
CALIFORNIA,
United States
368 posts
OG since: 04/04/2009
Muscles, lack of hygiene, bad taste in music.
posted Dec 12, 2010
Bethany D.
BOURNEMOUTH,
United Kingdom
208 posts
OG since: 05/25/2010
this could go on a while...
- Overweight, I really like skinny guys (:
- Tanned, I dont know why :L
- Muscley, EEW!
- Chavvy/Gansgter/pretty boy (pretty self explanatry)
- Acne, there are so many ways to get rid of it.
- Smell/Smoke, why?
- Rasicm/Sexism/Homophobia
- Dumb
- Loud mouth, I'd prefer if somethings wern't shouted about please.
- Dressing like a hobo
I think thats it?
posted Dec 12, 2010
India-Rose K.
AUCKLAND,
New Zealand
4 posts
Member since: 11/02/2011
-Bad nails. Men with years worth of grime trapped under their witch like nails just give me the heebie jeebies.
-Poor hygiene in general. I have literally heard a man say he didn't like to shower because the shower box made him feel trapped. If that were true, there are other ways to not be dirty and smelly!
-People that look down on your beliefs. I was with a devout christian for two years, I'm not religious but it didn't bother me in the slightest that he was, but boy he made no bones about the fact that he thought his beliefs were the one and only and anyone else that didn't agree was an idiot.
posted Jan 27, 2012
Zahira O.
JAKARTA,
Indonesia
420 posts
OG since: 01/30/2010
by their attitude! i think i get turn off by the way a guy eats o_O i saw this guy once, he was very cool overall but i saw him eating a snack and just by the way his mouth move i just don't want to look at this guy.
posted Jan 27, 2012
Zephyr E.
CITY OF CHURCHES,
Australia
55 posts
Member since: 01/02/2011
I cannot stand guys who drink/smoke obnoxiously, or have dumb tattoos, especially if they're throat or back of the hand tattoos. Maybe a bit odd coming from someone with as much work as me, but I'm really not into guys with a similar aesthetic to me.
posted Jan 27, 2012
Christina A.
TEXAS,
United States
613 posts
OG since: 06/06/2010
I can't deal with immature, stupid or ignorant. like, I've tried it before and we just can't make it work.
posted Jan 27, 2012
Demi B.
SCOTLAND,
United Kingdom
18 posts
Member since: 10/16/2010
appearance- i'm not too fussy but defiantly someone who never looks happy
personality- someone who's cocky, ignorant and who has no sense of humor
posted Jan 27, 2012
Isabelle C.
NEW YORK,
United States
118 posts
Member since: 07/03/2011
-when even if they're nice to me, they're a dick to other people
-when they're nice to every other girl except for me....who they're supposed to be nice to...
posted Jan 27, 2012
Andrew M.
IRELAND,
United Kingdom
85 posts
Member since: 01/08/2012
Appearance - a guy who's overweight
Personality - A really cocky guy, who thinks their better than everyone .
posted Jan 27, 2012
Ava S.
EARTH,
United Kingdom
206 posts
Member since: 04/11/2011
yeah, people with poor personal hygiene are just completely off the table.
also, guys who always talk about sex, and think taking the piss out of people is hilarious.
its not. you're a dick.
posted Jan 27, 2012
Kenneth ☾ A.
BOSTON,
United States
1879 posts
OG since: 07/19/2009
*same sex
appearance: bad hair, most six packs
personality: really judgemental, very religious, dumb as shit, doesn't listen
posted Jan 30, 2012
Lucy D.
LONDON,
United Kingdom
446 posts
Member since: 08/04/2011
Personality - Arrogance.
Looks - People who blindly follow fashion regardless of whether or not the style they've chosen actually suits them.
posted Jan 30, 2012
Freya O.
ZURICH,
Switzerland
12 posts
Member since: 11/27/2011
height gotta be taller then me :/
and i hate it when guys are soo desperate
posted Jan 30, 2012
MaryAlice M.
WONDERLAND,
United States
812 posts
Member since: 09/14/2011
Men with outrageous gauges,
Men younger than I,
Men with longer hair than I,
Men who look dirty,
A man who isn't a gent,
A man with no class,
A man who is too obsessed with his "social status" that he can't have fun,
Clingy men,
Non-religious men,
overly tatted men,
drunkards, druggies, and chain smokers.
hah I have a lot of turn offs. :P
posted Jan 30, 2012
Meaghan F.
Canada
106 posts
Member since: 06/07/2011
a big turn off is cocky guys, there is a big difference between confident and cocky and it's easy to spot.
posted Jan 30, 2012
MaryAlice M.
WONDERLAND,
United States
812 posts
Member since: 09/14/2011
lol Hey, I shoot for the top. :P
posted Jan 30, 2012
Tera V.
Luxembourg
18 posts
Member since: 01/01/2012
how ironic, i'm extremely humble and my boyfriend is attracted to snobby ass girls -.-
posted Jan 30, 2012
Becky B.
2005,
United Kingdom
593 posts
Member since: 08/28/2010
Smokers.
Belching.
A lack of ambition.
Poor spelling and grammar.
posted Jan 30, 2012
Jennifer L.
THE WOODS,
United Kingdom
96 posts
Member since: 01/21/2012
That made me giggle - who knows; Ned Flanders could be an incredible lover!
Appearance wise, the only thing I'd probably say is height! I'm not sure I'd feel too comfortable dating a guy who was much shorter than me. Last time I checked myself I was 5'9, and I'm centimeters taller than my fiancé. That's enough for me! I'm not attracted to muscles either. A natural physique! Yes; someone who is natural. That's enough for me!
Also I wouldn't date someone younger than me; definitely attracted to the older man! Probably because I look and act a fair bit older than my years. Of course, it's hypothetical.
posted Jan 30, 2012
Olivia E.
CINCINNATI,
United States
80 posts
Member since: 09/28/2011
Disrespectful.
Don't know when to shut their mouth.
posted Jan 30, 2012
Erin K.
BRISBANE,
Australia
319 posts
OG since: 04/11/2010
That comment made my day!
And I don't like overly emotional people (simply because I am overly emotional... HEHE!)
And I don't like men that think about themselves ALL the time! Sometimes is okay...
posted Jan 31, 2012
Mika P.
DOWNTOWN MANILA,
Philippines
1908 posts
OG since: 05/21/2009
behavior-wise, i abhor chauvinists and spitting (not just men, i just hate when people spit in general)
looks-wise, men who dress like my older brother (like this) actually, just poorly dressed, unstylish, slovenly men.
posted Jan 31, 2012
Rose C.
CALIFORNIA,
United States
82 posts
OG since: 03/02/2010
Unintelligent men. Drives me crazy if you don't speak properly and cannot back up your thoughts with reasons. Also...guys who don't take care of their hygiene. BO, bad breath, or dirty tee-shirts? Automatically disqualified.
posted Jan 31, 2012
Chelle G.
ORANGE COUNTY,
United States
151 posts
Member since: 01/18/2012
When they diss or look down upon something I like, it's just a turn off completely. I understand if they don't like the things I do, but when it's multiple things and they don't realize that they're doing it is such a turn off. It just shows me that it'll be hard to form a relationship with that person.
posted Jan 31, 2012
Lovely B.
PHILIPPINES,
Philippines
289 posts
OG since: 08/26/2010
Appearance wise : Bad dental hygiene, dirty nails, height (must be taller than me).
Non-appearance : Boastful. Judgmental. Couch potato.
posted Jan 31, 2012
Ryry B.
MANILA,
Philippines
53 posts
Member since: 08/31/2010
Turnoffs :
Appearance-wise : overweight (extends far beyond the physical, I think it's a state of mind and judgement as well), bad grooming, no fashion / style sense
Non-appearance-wise : no sense of rhythm (girls who don't know how to move move just look...awkward), no job and sense of ambition
posted Jan 31, 2012
Minda K.
WASHINGTON,
United States
189 posts
Member since: 08/27/2011
When guys and girls act like they're above everyone else.
posted Feb 8, 2012
Alexandra L.
GIURGIU,
Romania
55 posts
Member since: 11/07/2010
appearance : untrimmed guys. He doesn't have to be perfectly built, there can be a little trace of a belly or something, but if he doesn't take care of himself... that's a no,no!
Personality: as long as he's not stupid and I can carry a conversation with him, he can be the most snobby person ever!
posted Feb 8, 2012
Casey H.
Australia
56 posts
Member since: 02/14/2012
smoking
posted Mar 31, 2012
Shaz O.
United Kingdom
1262 posts
Member since: 12/08/2010
lack of hygiene, especially dirty nails. Chavs, illiteracy- major turn off
posted Mar 31, 2012
Kirstine Eibye E.
HADSTEN, AARHUS,
Denmark
205 posts
Member since: 04/15/2011
Bad hygiene, that's the worst. Otherwise then eyebrows. I know that guys shouldn't be the ones to pluck their eyebrows, but a pair of tweezers could do wonders, I mean, if they have a mono.
posted Mar 31, 2012
Nathaniel T.
MELBOURNE,
Australia
272 posts
Member since: 03/12/2011
Appearance-wise: Fake and looks like a man
Non Appearance-wise: moral lacking
posted Apr 3, 2012
Nina M.
VANCOUVER,
Canada
131 posts
OG since: 07/23/2010
If they don't support equality between men and women
posted Apr 8, 2012
Jacky S.
RODEO TOWN,
Germany
15 posts
Member since: 01/10/2011
if they smell... and bad hygiene in general
posted Apr 8, 2012
Alice J.
Denmark
2 posts
OG since: 07/21/2010
Long nails ew ew ew ew :s
posted 26 days ago
Denyque F.
Jamaica
4 posts
Member since: 04/14/2012
no morals
no sense of an imagination
tacky, impolite, immature
not able to keep up in an highly engaging conversation
chauvinistic and rude and condescending and disrespectful and just plain out-of-order
not accommodating
and displaying a dogmatic "because me say so!" attitude
poor personal hygiene
chat too much (i mean i already do so.......what a situation if he needs to talk too much too) :s
posted 26 days ago
Flávia S.
Brazil
3 posts
Member since: 04/09/2012
ooh bad breath for suure!
posted 26 days ago
Olive R.
BROWNSVILLE,TX,
United States
53 posts
Member since: 02/08/2011
appearance:weird smell, too feminine,
non appearance: snobby, cocky, airheads, rude and loudmouths
posted 26 days ago
Kumba D.
GLASGOW,
United Kingdom
169 posts
Member since: 11/01/2011
posh, overly feminine boys who think they're better than everyone else because they went to a private school, really piss me off.
posted 10 days ago
Dani A.
LOS ANGELES,
United States
309 posts
OG since: 03/10/2010
Appearance: full beard
Non-appearance: acting like a "bro"
posted 10 days ago
Emma D.
BOHEMIA,
Australia
224 posts
Member since: 09/06/2010
Appearance: Bad teeth. I don't mean crooked, I mean unhygienic.
Non- Appearance: Lack of creativity or imagination.
posted 10 days ago
Roselinni C.
GREENFIELDS,
Philippines
185 posts
Member since: 11/13/2011
appearance - Poor personal hygiene
non appearance - Nonsense that you can't even talk about something you know because he himself doesn't know anything interesting
posted 10 days ago
Levi Philip K.
ENGLAND (THE CITY OF YORK),
United Kingdom
931 posts
OG since: 12/07/2009
Appearance wise in a girl I'm not too shallow, however being overweight, that's a turn-off.. And poor hygiene.
Personality wise, little to no intellect or wit, a girl you can't hold down a deep conversation with, a girl who isn't open minded, a girl who isn't loyal, I love super excessively clingy/needy girls so the opposite of being super excessively clingy/needy.
posted 10 days ago
Amber S.
1965,
Netherlands
379 posts
Member since: 02/18/2011
Overweight blokes who smell funny, ew.
And guys who complain all the time or guys who think they're always right.
Misogynists are also terrible.
posted 10 days ago
Paula G.
MANILA,
Philippines
48 posts
Member since: 05/10/2012
Appearance - bloated, acne prone and beard.
Non appearance - big ego, no confidence
posted 5 days ago
Jordan B.
CONNECTICUT,
United States
8 posts
Member since: 11/27/2011
Appearance: Fat face, no actual bone structure. Just a round, fat face.
Non appearance: Ignorance. People in general should learn to think outside the box.
posted 5 days ago